Are we together Mommy?

There has always been different ways of showing commitment. Yes, there's marriage, moving in together, and starting a family, but the first sure sign of showing that you belong to someone is when they hold your hand. It's a simple gesture, but one that makes you feel loved, secure, and taken care of. It's such a good feeling knowing that the person you care for is right next to you. I have to wonder why so many mothers have begun to neglect this simple ritual concerning their own children. I'm sure I'm not the only person who has noticed children who are extremely young coming down the street, appearing to be alone until you hear a loud voice from a stranger two feet ahead of them yelling "COME ON" or " WALK UP!". It may be just me, but I don't see how you can deny you children the security of knowing that they belong to you by taking the time to hold their hand. How many hit and runs or scraps and falls could have been avoided by just taking the time to extend your embrace and letting your child know"Mommy's here". This isn't meant to be a guilt trip, just a reminder that children need that sense of love and belonging that many of us like to receive in any relationship. They should learn love and belonging from family first. In today's world it's so easy to feel alone. Let's take the time to let our children know that they aren't neglected, but cherished. Just a Thought.

Question: What are some ways that you show your older children that you love them?

*Good ideas- Love can be expressed in many ways, even children may have specific ways of showing and receiving love. A great way to explore this topic is the book :The five love languages for kids by Dr. Gary Chapman